I wish we’d gone all the way

“The best sex this year was hands down was with an artist I dated over the summer. I think what made it so hot was, because we were trying to take things slow, we’d have epic public makeout sessions before one of us would finally be like, ‘Let’s go to my place.’ Also, in almost two months of dating we never actually had sex-sex, as in the ‘p’ never actually went in the ‘v.’ It was all oral sex and massaging and rolling around naked for hours at a time. Funny how he sticks out as the best over the guys I actually boned. Though in retrospect, I wish we’d gone all the way. Because I bet that would’ve been amazing, too.”

What Was The Best Sex You Had In 2010?

In a perfect world

In a perfect world, the ideal would be for exes to succeed at being friends, but in one where bitterness, jealousy, passion, and human nature exceed reasoning and rational thought, it's impossible.

Being Friends with Exes

The Ups and Downs of Uniqueness

"I realized a long time ago in high school that I was not the type to blend in, but the type to stand out. But uniqueness can have its downsides: like standing out at all the wrong times, or idolizing your uniqueness and cheapening it." -Original

I did, I do, and I will

“If I never met you, I wouldn't like you. If I didn't like you, I wouldn't love you. If I didn't love you, I wouldn't miss you. But I did, I do, and I will.”

Until lions have their historians

“Until lions have their historians, tales of the hunt shall always glorify the hunter”

African Proverb

Love me when I least deserve it

“Love me when I least deserve it, because that's when I really need it.”

Swedish Proverb

Have You Ever Been In Love?

“Have you ever been in love? Horrible isn't it? It makes you so vulnerable. It opens your chest and it opens up your heart and it means that someone can get inside you and mess you up. You build up all these defenses, you build up a whole suit of armor, so that nothing can hurt you, then one stupid person, no different from any other stupid person, wanders into your stupid life...You give them a piece of you. They didn't ask for it. They did something dumb one day, like kiss you or smile at you, and then your life isn't your own anymore. Love takes hostages. It gets inside you. It eats you out and leaves you crying in the darkness, so simple a phrase like 'maybe we should be just friends' turns into a glass splinter working its way into your heart. It hurts. Not just in the imagination. Not just in the mind. It's a soul-hurt, a real gets-inside-you-and-rips-you-apart pain. I hate love.”

Neil Gaiman